Gender care is fine. For advice when they are kids. Prepping for what will happen when they turn 18. That decision shouldn’t be made before then. By anyone.
What you don’t mention is the number of people who change their minds. You are allowing a kid to make a decision there is no turning back from. I am sure there are kids that never grow out of it. That isn’t even what I said. When you are young, it is difficult to figure out who or what you want to be. That is why we set when restrictions on things that could be too much for them. Alchohol. War. Movies. Voting. Driving.
Without a doubt allowing this will hurt just as many as it will help. Most likely more. I got nothing if you can’t see this. This is also just the start. Where will they stop at the age as well. You know they won’t. Next thing you know five year olds will be transitioning.
This is a little old school. And maybe corny to some. But it will explain it so anyone can understand the core base issue here among 100 issues.