Where to start: actually it hasn't been 'clear', at least not in the way you'd prefer, for 200 years; more like less than 40 since Kentucky passed a gun control law in 1813. Um, how can one take away rights and give them to others...when we're all guaranteed the same ones? Or, do you mean those not worthy of them? Next, you do realize that there are gay Christians, right? In summation, it is difficult for an entitled majority to come to grips with a more even playing field; causes all kinds of vertigo and such. You'll get over it, or you won't. The world will continue to evolve regardless. Meantime, perhaps reflection on why you chose your particular flavor or religion in the first place in, I imagine, the face of immense familial and societal pressure to conform to the beliefs of your ancestors, is called for.