Here's my .02 ... It's long but bear with it.
I will preface this all by saying I am not a Christian. I'm not an atheist either, but I have absolutely no qualms about homosexuality based on religious factors ... None of those factors exist to me personally. My disdain, contempt and dislike for homosexuality has nothing to do with what a book tells me. It has everything to do with it being an affront to human evolution and biology. Weiners are purpose built to enter vaginas, skeet skeet skeet, and make little human babies ... Man Cubs if you will. Therefore the species can perpetuate, good genes get passed on ... bad are supposed to die off ... We evolve into even more awesome alpha predators than we are.
Therefore, any human male who does not have the need or desire to breed with a human female (or vice versa) is an abheration in terms of evolutionary biology ... At least that's what all the scientists say in regards to other animals ... Which all The big brains agree humans are ... Cuz you know ... Darwin and all.
However...
I would also have to consider myself a libertarian. I say that because I don't give a sh@t about what any of you people do ... As long as it in no way affects me. That's because I don't want some busy body trying to control what I can and cannot do. If you're a dude and you want to tongue kiss dongs ... Awesome bro. I don't agree with it at all ... But you do you my man. In the same way I don't want your whiny @ss to get all gun grabby on me because you don't like or agree with evil boom sticks (you primitive screw heads).
In other words, just because I have misgivings about, or dislike for, something DOES NOT MEAN I want the state to ban or outlaw it. I can simply choose to disassociate myself from something. For example, I do not agree with abortions (in the vast majority of cases - not including mothers health, rape, incest etc). Again not on religious grounds but on the grounds that a baby is going to have its brains sucked out of its head, because in the vast majority of cases, people do not want to deal with the consequences of their irresponsible actions. But I in no way would ever approve of or support any legislation which would make abortion illegal.
But here's what may blow your mind ... Just because a STATE or
government entity is bound by something does not mean individual citizens or businesses are necessarily bound by something. Just because gays can get married does not mean that an individual or business can be FORCED into honoring it. If a Christian disagrees with homosexuality on the basis of religious beliefs so effing what? That individual or business is not the state, they make nor enforce no statutes therefore any discriminations or prejudices against anyone is their right under the first amendment of the constitution of the United States of America.
A Christian clergyman refusing to perform a gay wedding IS NOT ILLEGAL. That is his choice due to the inalienable right of Americans to utilize thier first amendment rights. The same for a private business which refuses to do business or serve people or groups with which they disagree with. ITS THEIR SH@t.. They can do with it whatever they choose to do. Laws forcing said clergyman to perform said ceremonies in contrast and in direct conflict with his religious beliefs, and any Anti-discrimination laws which force private companies into doing business with anyone ... For any reason ... are in my opinion unjust and unconstitutional.
Continuing to call any of this marriage equality is really just Orwellian newspeak. If it was really about marriage equality these people would be pounding the drum just as hard for other types of marriages ... Polygamy as far as I know is illegal in nearly every state except Utah. But you don't see roving bands of vigilante Mormons forcing individuals, businesses and government entities to cower to their demands do you.
This is solely because teh gheyz ... And pop culture ... And most of the media ... Are trying to make this into the civil rights movement redux. This ain't the new Selma you ass hats. This is all about hip, over privileged, mostly white people with worthless liberal arts educations, having a "cause" to bitch and moan about. Get over yourselves you petulant children.
Homos make up roughly 3% of the population ... 3 effing percent. Given our current population of roughly 330 million that's about ... What 9-10 million people (and that counts all who claimed to be gay, bi and trannies ... Numbers taken from the largest and most comprehensive study ever done on the matter with over 100k participants over all 50 states ... Will post link if you'd like to read)
Hell I would have thought it would be closer to 30 or so seeing as I can't watch tv or listen to the radio without some type of ******ry being foisted upon me. I'm almost positive there are more than 9 million Mormons in the U.S. Yet I am not constantly inundated with Latter Day Saints propaganda ... Hmmm that's weird.