What's more humiliating for a husband: to find his ole lady in bed with another woman, or discover naked teat pics she has sent some 15 year high school kid? If he knows what he's doing, he can flip this thing around to his favor and start tapping some of her best friend's tang. I know wood.
Unfortunately most guys don't realize it, but it's all about playing the "understand" card correctly.
One night I took a twosome home on the pretext of banging the little 7.5 while her 10 buddy could sleep in my spare bedroom. (Whosyodawgy's Golden Rule for picking up both women: ALWAYS go after the lower number of the two, I'll explain if need be).
Well, the 7.5 turned out to have a dang 11 poon on her and a rock hard little muscular body. So, I worked on that a lot longer than I expected to. Finally about 6am, she was done and I waited patiently until she fell asleep: my whang hard as a rock thinking about the 10 in the other room.
I quietly tiptoed into the 10's bedroom and slipped under the covers. She was sound asleep. I "understood" it was a bad move to wake her at that point so I just just waited.
After what seemed like about a year, she rolled over and snuggled up against me (it was a very cold night). In a little bit she realized I was there and woke up. I pretended to be asleep and didn't move a muscle.
She snuggled right back in against me and started kissing all over me so I pretended to wake up. I told her I had trouble sleeping because I "understood" that she might be lonely and feel a little weird so I came and got in bed with her but didn't want to act like some nerd just trying to get laid so I had not bothered her while she slept. She gave me a big 10 smile and said, "it's wonderful to have someone understand and be waiting to make love to me when I wake up in the morning". I was tired as hell but you know how it is. The great ones just play through it.
A couple of hours into it, the 7.5 comes walking up the hall and peeks in. "Oh," she said in fake surprise. I said, "hey beautiful, c'mon in. Debra doesn't want anyone to feel left out. It's ok, we understand".
