Does this bother any one else?
One side of my wife's family just love stopping by unannounced and I don't play that game. I always have plans and if I don't have plans or am not busy, I am busy not doing anything.
Maybe it's the northerner in me or maybe I'm part of a younger generation who does not value face to face time as much, but let me know at least an hour in advance or don't stop by. I don't mind if I'm working outside and you pull up in your car (I'll chat you up for ten minutes) but you aren't coming in my house and I'm not stopping what I'm doing to talk open endedly.
One side of my wife's family just love stopping by unannounced and I don't play that game. I always have plans and if I don't have plans or am not busy, I am busy not doing anything.
Maybe it's the northerner in me or maybe I'm part of a younger generation who does not value face to face time as much, but let me know at least an hour in advance or don't stop by. I don't mind if I'm working outside and you pull up in your car (I'll chat you up for ten minutes) but you aren't coming in my house and I'm not stopping what I'm doing to talk open endedly.