... definitely a type 3. However, dealing with friends and dealing with adversaries presents 2 completely different scenarios.
When you tell an adversary (me), "believe me", it is a subconscious slip. It means I absolutely cannot and if I do I will suffer a fool's fate.
When a type 3 leader says, "believe me", to his support, it means, "as long as you don't challenge my position of strength I will fight for you", and they do. Many effective and beneficial leaders are type 3.
Narcissism also is a prevalent trait of almost all those in political office and narcissism is common among type 3 individuals such as yourself.