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The only thing keeping Kirby from becoming Saban

I'm thinking back to an interview with Kirby just before (or maybe just after) the 2021 National Championship.

Kirby was asked to reflect on Saban and his relationship with him and he made a comment that has stuck in my mind ever since:

"One thing I've seen in Coach Saban is that in his recent years he's truly come to understand the value of relationships much more deeply". That's not an exact quote, but that's the gist of it.

There is a whole lot happening in that comment. I could almost hear Kirby saying 'I have seen this guy destroy people in a way that he will never be forgiven for, and honestly it freaked me tf out'.

And therein lies the last remaining hurdle Kirby has to clear if he wants to fully become what Saban was. He has to completely embrace the age old wisdom that it's lonely at the top and he's often not going to be loved for doing what needs to be done. That he's going to have to let go of his friends if he wants to keep giving speeches about being elite. That he cannot let a modicum of feeling creep into his decision making process with respect to our program.

The Kirby Smart that sits at the dinner table of recruits cannot be allow to make any more hires. When it's hiring season, he has to be cold and hard and ruthless to the point that he leaves people around him wondering if he understands the value of human connection.

Kirby did not hire Mike Bobo because he was the best for the job. Mike had been fired 3 times in a row before Kirby pulled him out of retirement and put him in charge. Kirby did not hire Stacy Searles after a thorough search for the best available. Kirby hired Mike and Stacy because it was convenient and easy and they were all buddies and it felt good.

Next year probably isn't going to be great regardless, but the years after that are very much up for grabs. Is it back to elite status or back to the Richt years?

Kirby's ability to ignore the value of relationships will likely be the determining factor.

First met Sonny Smart, I guess it was 1988…

I was a sports writer with the Valdosta Daily times. Valdosta played at Bainbridge.
Sonny let me use his office to send to send my story.
Funny the things you remember….
Prayers up to the entire Smart family.
PS - I don’t know how Kirby was able to coach the Sugar Bowl knowing that all was going on with his dad at the time of the game.

Prayer Request Tribute to DGD Organ Donor and Prayer Request!

I am posting this as a tribute to a DGD, along with a request for prayers. My fraternity brother and friend passed Andy Lipman passed away Friday night at the way too young age of 51.

Andy was a graduate of The University of Georgia and an Alumni Board Member of The Terry College of Business. Like all of us, he loved UGA and all the teams that sport the red and black.

Andy gave new meaning to the phrase “great guy,” as not a soul with whom he crossed paths had anything but the most positive things to say about him. Now onto the truly uncommon stuff.

Andy was born with cystic fibrosis, a progressive, genetic disease that affects the lungs, pancreas, and other organs. At birth, the doctors told Andy’s parents that he would be lucky to make it to his 25th birthday. Yet every day of his life, Andy stared down that prognosis and lived his life in a manner that said “F*ck you” to the dreaded disease, fighting daily to keep CF from getting the upper hand.

Heroically, Andy did not merely channel all his energy to his own fight. He worked tirelessly to raise awareness for CF and advocate on behalf of those inflicted with CF around the world.

Specifically, Andy wrote 5 books all centered around his fight against CF. He also led efforts which raised almost $5 million for research for CF, centered around an annual softball tournament named for Wendy Lipman. Wendy was the sister he never got to meet, as she died from CF before Andy was born, having lived just 15 days.

These inspiring endeavors significantly moved the needle in the quest to raise awareness and funds for research to combat CF worldwide.

Andy’s collective relentless efforts landed him on The Today Show in 2019; an opportunity he used to share his platform and story, further raising awareness for CF. These efforts also garnered Andy the honor of running a leg in the Olympic torch relay prior to the 2002 Salt Lake City Olympic Winter Games. Naturally, his leg was in Athens!

It is not a stretch to say that Andy was literally a hero to those in the CF community around the world.

In a somewhat cruel twist of irony, it was not cystic fibrosis that got Andy, but rather an unrelated medical event. Those of us who loved him take tremendous pride at the undeniable fact that cystic fibrosis in-fact DID NOT win. Yet we simultaneously find ourselves stunned that as hard as he fought CF, something unrelated has taken him from us far too young.

Most importantly, Andy was a tremendous father to his 2 beautiful children, a devoted son to his father who had recently fallen ill himself, and a loving husband to his loyal and amazing wife.

As if Andy had not already made his mark on the world, in one final act to further his impact, several of Andy’s organs were successfully donated just after his passing. As was the case during his life, as he left the world, Andy continued to positively impact others.

This final selfless act of kindness and generosity will literally enable others to live. Whomever gets his heart is getting the heart of a champion and a true warrior.

My wife and I had the tremendous honor of being present at the organ donor “Honor Walk” Friday at Piedmont just before Andy peacefully passed. Unfortunately, that is the 2nd honor walk for a fraternity brother for which we have been present for in the last 13 months, as we lost another in December 2023. I posted a tribute on the vent for him as well, as he had also selflessly donated his organs.

In the great words of Vince Gill: Go rest high on that mountain…Andy, your work on earth is done! And man, did you get a lot done in your 51 years.

You are a true warrior and hero, having inspired more people than anyone I have ever known. The epitome of a Damn Good Dawg!

Please pray for Andy and his friends and family, and those inflicted with CF everywhere.

Asa

We are going to waste the talent of a NBA Lottery Pick We just have to get him involved more. Kinda reminds Me of how Crean didn't take advantage of having Antman a few years ago. We're going to not take advantage of our 5 Star Player. Love Asa. give him more touches and shots. He'l be gone soon.
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