ND: Private School
- By CalienteDawg
- The Dawgchat
- 206 Replies
You’ve got a lot of good answers and here are a couple other things to think about.
We went the private school route due to subpar public schools here but we almost pulled her out a few times when she could get into the good magnet schools here.
The biggest downside to private schools is obviously the cost. This money could be used for college, investments etc. The question isn’t is private school better than public, the question to ask..Is private school better than public plus $250k more in your investments to help you and your family out in the future?
The second issue is if your family is at a private school for 10 years then you’ll see 1-3 leadership changes. The rule of thumb is that every third headmaster is dud. I’m close to board members and admin at three private schools and everyone knows it’s going to happen but it’s so hard to predict. There are just so many internal/external variables that cause it. If your kid catches one of the duds for 3-5 years then that can easily turn a good school into a underwhelming experience.
The third and most important thing to consider is to remember you are making a sacrifice sending them to private school so if they start goofing off and not doing what they need to do are you and your wife prepared to deal with paying money for a kid to piss that money away. I’ve seen more than a few families sacrifice for their kids to waste the opportunity.
With that being said…it was a positive experience for us. Our daughter thrived there and was involved in activities constantly that wouldn’t have been possible at a large school. She made great friends and due to some fairly unique circumstances at her school she actually made a much more cultural diverse group of friends than she would have at any public school in the area.
Good luck!
We went the private school route due to subpar public schools here but we almost pulled her out a few times when she could get into the good magnet schools here.
The biggest downside to private schools is obviously the cost. This money could be used for college, investments etc. The question isn’t is private school better than public, the question to ask..Is private school better than public plus $250k more in your investments to help you and your family out in the future?
The second issue is if your family is at a private school for 10 years then you’ll see 1-3 leadership changes. The rule of thumb is that every third headmaster is dud. I’m close to board members and admin at three private schools and everyone knows it’s going to happen but it’s so hard to predict. There are just so many internal/external variables that cause it. If your kid catches one of the duds for 3-5 years then that can easily turn a good school into a underwhelming experience.
The third and most important thing to consider is to remember you are making a sacrifice sending them to private school so if they start goofing off and not doing what they need to do are you and your wife prepared to deal with paying money for a kid to piss that money away. I’ve seen more than a few families sacrifice for their kids to waste the opportunity.
With that being said…it was a positive experience for us. Our daughter thrived there and was involved in activities constantly that wouldn’t have been possible at a large school. She made great friends and due to some fairly unique circumstances at her school she actually made a much more cultural diverse group of friends than she would have at any public school in the area.
Good luck!